When most people think of watching porn, they probably think of going to a seedy, poorly designed crapfest of a website and watching janky, poorly lit, awkward-as-hell videos of people having sex. But Millennial women are over that shit, and, in search of better porn for women, they're finding Tumblr. While Tumblr doesn't release statistics on the number of people flocking to the platform for porn, one Tumblr porn site operator said she gains about 4, new followers a month — mostly women, mostly twentysomethings. I reached out to some friends to see if anyone was on the bandwagon of young women leaving conventional free porn sites like RedTube and PornHub behind in favor of well-designed, infinite scrolling pages of sexy GIFs and erotica, and I got a shocking number of enthusiastic yesses. I inquired further.

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On December 17, Tumblr banned adult content on their platform. The move was rumored to be a knee-jerk response to Apple removing Tumblr from its App Store over failing to adequately filter out child pornography. While that is certainly an understandable and valid reason for removing the app, instead of improving their filtering system, Tumblr decided to ban all adult content altogether. In doing so, they destroyed a massive social media community and outlet where people, especially underrepresented communities, could freely express their sexuality. I was one of those people. I was in the midst of ending a sexless and passionless marriage, and while I never took much pleasure in sex anyway, I knew others did, which gave me a resounding and incessant urge to find out what I was missing. But how would I even start? What turned me on? How would I find it and articulate it not just to myself, but to a partner?
However, with each day women are dominating more and more. Obviously, this means we also want to see ourselves in the porn we watch — and that can be hard to do with sites like Pornhub. Granted, Pornhub has a "porn for women" section, but it feels like even that's just not enough. Who's even deciding which porn women will actually like? Plus, lesbian erotica seems to focus on the aspects of sex that many women care about, like foreplay and mutual pleasure.
Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love. The point made was that a parallel can be drawn between interfaith and interracial marriages. I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. I have been a doctor's wife for almost 2 years - and we have been together for about 7 years, since right before intern year. This helps us out a lot, we dont feel like we are missing parts of each others day and I dont keep him up all night talking.