If you can only think of alcohol and coffee for a good time, you're very disappointed. We met at home just before he went back to school and even though we only had a week together, it was whirlwind and we already spoke of marriage and kids. This post and the comments are an eye opener. Learning from a young age that any religion will do means that your children almost certainly will ultimately believe that any religion will do. If you want to go against that trend, one of you will almost certainly change perspective. I have already been told I will "lose" to medicine if I put pressure on him. He came to bed at 1: I don't know if I can make this work. And I never found that "good Mormon girl". Do some research of your own as well, so that you know a little more about the person you are dating. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons.
Please realize I know how the church works, was extremely active and raised good kids. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. It interrupts meals, sleep, shopping trips, conversations, romantic time, and even fights. That's what love is, right.
I feel like I make a lot of sacrifices to see him and try to make it as convenient as possible for him, which means planning ahead and changing my schedule around sometimes. Put your best foot forward; be soft-spoken, courteous, well-mannered, chivalrous, and respectful. I still love my Heavenly Father and my Savior. I've been in a similar situation before. Dude just to summarize what I think is the majority of the comments. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. Have you created your Facebook Club yet. And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future.
Oh your fiance works in the medicine field, too. Mormon girls are the best, and you are pretty lucky. But now, we embrace our spiritual differences. But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS. Save her and yourself more pain by ending it before you fall in love. It's pretty rough waking up to drive home that early and then trying to go back to sleep again for just a little bit before getting up again for work. I hope that makes sense. And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it. And you are right about people telling you that you are lucky that you married a doctor and should not complain.