You guys have very thick skin. Once when I saw how hurt my children had become due to his lack of interaction with them. For me, one of those bouncers is my marriage to the most wonderful woman alive. Nothing less will do. Comes home 4 am and 7 am he goes to work again. I'd gladly give it all up to have him and feel wanted. Oh, and remember LDS girls are usually good at leading guys on with potential sex to get guys to agree to what they want join the church.
I have finally realized that the church is fake and I'm so grateful that I got a second chance with this guy. But the idea of marrying my husband felt right from almost the get-go and, my patriarchal blessing made so much more sense. I feel your pain people. She has opened my eyes to many parts of our national culture that are not in harmony with righteousness. I would leave him note reminding him how important his work was. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. She is probably thinking she can convert you if she is with you long enough and is a good enough example.
He would be leaving his career, something he has worked so hard for and his passion for his family. Also, I'm not involved with a doctor but I am an RN and spend quite a bit of time with them. Pray about it and follow your heart. I have this brain trapped after all these years. I've been holding out, mostly contentedly, for a time when we could appreciate each other as unique individuals.
Do you drink alcohol. And if he loves you as much as you love him. What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path. If this happens, it might click something in her mind that says that what she experienced was pleasurable and she would like to have it again. Cool Nicknames for Guys.