I am more compassionate towards people who I would have stigmatized earlier. You would be able to force her to confront the facts without feeling threatened. If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. So far I have found it is a day to day thing. Many men have begun leaving the Church in their early twenties as the mission has become more important. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life.
Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities. Surgical intern year is much harder than I expected. Nothing beats a face to face talk. You'll know pretty quick where she stands. We have family prayer every day and read the scriptures occasionally.
You should take all of the above advice to heart and follow it just in case, so you can make a smooth transition should it ever be necessary. She has to decide for herself what she believes, but you can definitely help expose her to new ideas. Might be worth working through the missionary lessons and CES letter to see if they can agree at least to disagree. He doted on me, and we had long skype conversations for the first few weeks. If only I knew. Thanks for the help.
This is starting to upset me though and I'm tired of waiting for change, so how should I approach the conversation. All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. It has already taken him us 3 years since he got out of school and finally just matched this year. I am fortunate to be married to a surgeon who, although he has "the ego," he maintains Christian values in our home.